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"That thing is all teeth" – A researcher on a new sea star species. Not exactly feedback anyone wants to hear.

Putin It Out There

The Story

President Biden and Russian President Vladimir Putin just had their one-on-one.

Do tell.

Yesterday, Biden and Putin met up in the "city of peace" (hi, Geneva, Switzerland) for their first formal meeting. Relations between the US and Russia have taken a nosedive in recent years, with some even putting the relationship at a post-Cold War low. Here are some of the tough conversations that came up during the meeting:

Cyberattacks…Last year, US ransomware attacks shot up 300% and haven't slowed down. Some of the big ones this year (think: Colonial Pipeline, Microsoft, JBS) have been tied to Russian hackers. But during the meeting, Putin said 'wasn't me.' And has denied that Russia interfered in US elections. Biden lowered his aviators and leveled with Putin. He said he gave him a list of 16 things Russian hackers absolutely can't mess with, including US energy and water infrastructure. Unclear if everything else is fair game.

Human rights...Biden brought up Russia's arrest and poisoning of opposition leader Alexei Navalny. The Kremlin's crackdown of opposition activists and the arrest of two Americans also came up. Putin reportedly defended arresting Navalny but dodged the whole poisoning part. As for the crackdowns, Putin knows how to change the conversation. He turned the subject to BLM protests, saying he doesn't want to see that kind of "disorder" in Russia. Meanwhile, Biden warned Putin of "devastating" consequences if Navalny dies in prison.


Well, Putin called the meeting "constructive." Biden said, "I did what I came to do." Think: open up discussions that would benefit the US – and try to establish a "predictable and rational" relationship with Russia. In the end, both leaders agreed on reinstating diplomats to their respective posts. And Biden says he thinks Russia's (fingers crossed) staying away from a new Cold War. Meanwhile, Republicans accused Biden of not being tough enough on Russia during the meeting.


Three years ago, then-President Trump famously downplayed Russia's election meddling. Biden's striking a different note, bringing up human rights concerns and cyberattacks. But while mentioning 'human rights' is now enough to win points back home, the proof will be in the pudding – and whether the meeting achieved more than a photo op remains to be seen.

And Also...This

What's on educators' minds…

Title IX. Yesterday, the Education Dept said that Title IX protections apply to gay and trans students. The 1970s-era law bans sex discrimination, assault, and harassment in federally funded educational programs. The dept's guidance – which comes during Pride Month – reverses former President Trump's stance that gay and trans students weren't entitled to protections. And follows SCOTUS's 2020 ruling protecting LGBTQ+ workers from discrimination under the Civil Rights Act. Education Secretary Miguel Cardona said all students – including members of the LGBTQ+ community – "deserve the opportunity to learn and thrive." Supporters commended the move saying it'll help protect trans youth. But some experts are reportedly skeptical that local govs will adopt the new guidance.

  • Under attack: Dozens of states have intro'd over 100 anti-trans bills this year, including banning trans children from playing on certain sports teams. It's unclear how Title IX protections could impact those bills. But it could raise legal challenges.

  • Change is needed: The Human Rights Campaign has found that at least 28 transgender or gender non-conforming people in the US have been killed so far this year. If the current rate continues, 2021 could be the deadliest year yet.

What's on its way to everyone's cal...

Juneteenth. Yesterday, the House passed a bill that would make Juneteenth a federal holiday just one day after the Senate unanimously approved it. Juneteenth – also called Freedom Day – commemorates the day when slavery officially ended in the US in 1865. Decades later, nearly all 50 states recognize it as a state holiday. Mastercard, the NFL, and others have embraced the holiday by giving employees the day off. 14 House Republicans voted against the legislation with one lawmaker dismissing it as "identity politics." Now, the bill's headed to President Biden's desk, who's expected to sign it. It could become the first federal holiday added to the US's cal since 1983.

Who people are talking about...

Iremamber Sykap. Earlier this week, three Honolulu officers were charged with murder or attempted murder in the deadly shooting of the 16-year-old boy. In April, officers chased Sykap, who was allegedly driving a stolen vehicle linked to several crimes. Police say he ignored their commands, forcing them to shoot. But prosecutors say one officer fired 10 rounds into the car "without provocation." And that eight hit Sykap, who died at the hospital. No body-cam footage's been released. The Honolulu police chief said they're "surprised" by the charges – given that a grand jury decided against indicting the officers days before. Sykap's family reportedly says they're grateful, and that the "shooting was entirely unjustified." If convicted, the officers face up to life in prison.

What's the latest mantra for Peloton instructors…

Ride like hackers are watching. Yesterday, software security company McAfee warned that hackers could spy on people using the Peloton Bike+ with a USB. Yikes+. But don't run away in place out of fear just yet. Apparently public bikes in gyms and hotels were especially at risk, since hackers would need physical access to the bike to install fake Netflix or Spotify apps. McAfee warned Peloton about the problem back in March. Now, Peloton's saying 'fixed it.'

What's putting some things on hold…

The Federal Reserve. This week, officials kept interest rates near zero but expect to raise rates in 2023 – a year earlier than expected. This comes as Americans are already seeing soaring prices for gas, clothes, and food. The Fed says inflated prices are likely temporary but some lawmakers worry it'll get worse.

Psst…here's how low interest rates can impact your savings, debt, and home buying or refinancing plans.

Who's got an easy drink order...

Cristiano Ronaldo and Paul Pogba.

What's got bidders Under Pressure…

This original $4.10 painting.

Thing to Know

Carbon Negative

A step beyond carbon neutral. It's used to describe people, places, activities, and businesses that remove more carbon from the atmosphere than they put in. Creating a net benefit for Mother Earth – and everyone living on her.

If you're looking for a place to address your thank you note, start with Avocado Green Mattress. They went carbon negative in 2020. And hand-make their best-selling mattress in their California factory using organic latex, wool, and cotton. Oh, and you can get $100 off right now as part of their July 4th sale. Sweet (sustainable) dreams.


It's a seller's market. So if you're on the hunt for a new home, welcome to Hunger Games: Home Buying edition. Here are three ways to make sure the odds are ever in your favor:

1. Be prepared with a large down payment and strong offer – as in, maybe more than the home's asking price. But don't go crazy. If you offer more than a home's appraised value, you may need to pay the difference in cash.

2. Go pro. Working with an agent who knows the market (and how to sweet-talk sellers) can help seal the deal.

3. Get pre-approved for a mortgage.

Get the rest of our tips in our guide to navigating a crowded housing market. Then sign up to see our Skimm Money newsletter in your inbox every Friday.


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We see her rovin'...Alexis A (TX). A year after earning her master's degree in Aerospace Engineering, she'll be joining NASA and working on their VIPER project to get a lunar rover to the moon in 2023.

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