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Talking about how you spend your time between the sheets can feel private — we get it. What happens there is your business. We’re here to say that the experience can be enhanced. So let’s talk sex toys.
To help you explore your partner’s body and your own, we rounded up vibrators that can be used by anyone and everyone.

You can use this one hands-free thanks to its automatic vibration and suction settings (that can be used at the same time). It’s got a transparent cup, so you and your partner can watch as the magic happens. Be sure to apply some water-based lubricant to the rim for easy and safe removal. ($115, Good Vibes)

The squishy, flatter head of the vibe is designed for the vulva or clitoris. But the arc of the handle is designed to help stimulate internally. And because of the slight curve, it won’t cause you to twist your wrist in uncomfortable positions. Reviewers rave about the different speed and pattern settings, along with the softness of the durable silicone. It can be used with a partner, but is also the perfect toy for some alone-time fun. ($99, Dame)

If you’re looking to spice up foreplay, this one’s for you. It can sit between your middle and pointer fingers, and has a little band so it won’t slide off. You can use it on a partner or yourself. It’s extremely versatile, and can boost sensation on hips and inner thighs. Psst...it’s not just for vulvas, either — try it against your partner’s shaft too. ($65, Dame)

It's got a tapered body with eight vibration settings, so it’s perfect for solo play or time spent between the sheets with another. It has rave reviews, with customers saying it’s a great size for first-timers. ($149, Lelo)

The front tip (for internal pleasure) is broad and thick. The back tip (for external play) is flexible. When inserted, the back tip rests right on the clitoris for wow-inducing orgasms. Everything is made from body-safe silicone and silky to the touch. You can use it on your partner and vice versa — with 12 vibration settings, you’ll never get bored. ($183, Lelo)

One arm of the vibrator can be inserted into you, while the other arm rests outside to massage the clitoris. All that power will be transferred to your partner during sex. To make sure you’re not distracted, the vibrator is remote-controlled. You’ll both stay hands-free and focused on each other. PS: We rounded up some more sex toys that are great for partner play. ($143.65, Lelo)

If you’re traveling, this vibrator will be your go-to on-the-road buddy. It’s got three speeds, is waterproof, and comes with a handy canvas pouch for storage. We love how efficient it is, along with its small design. ($49, Maude)

We can’t get enough of these little pom poms, and neither will your partner. They’ve got rubber tips and adjustable clamps to account for sensitivity, but you can always opt for these ties if you’re worried about the pressure. ($22, Le Wand)

These sensual accessories are the perfect way to introduce sensation play to the bedroom. Light them, melt them, and drip them all along your partner's body thanks to the low melting point — just be sure to hold the candle two to three inches away when you do. ($16.99, Good Vibes)

This gentle balm made with coconut oil, jojoba oil, goldenseal, and more is designed to relieve itchiness, dryness, and post-sex irritation. Its certified organic ingredients can help soothe discomfort in your vulvar area, and customers say they’ve found serious relief, even after struggling with symptoms of BV and yeast infections for long periods of time. ($37, Momotaro)

It doesn’t stop there. These condoms are spermicide-free, fragrance-free, and body safe. They’re FDA-approved, vegan, and come in easy-to-open packaging. So you don’t have to second-guess which side is up. ($15+, Lovability)

It’s hydrating and free from parabens or glycerin. You can use the lubricant with toys and condoms, and it’s latex-friendly. Once you’re done, it’ll wash away with just a bit of water. No mess left behind. ($10+, Maude)

When you’re in bed with your partner, you definitely don’t want any annoying chafing going on. Aka there are no straps or buckles that’ll squeeze or pinch. These feel like underwear and are made of a lightweight, breathable fabric that's also water-resistant. ($109.95, Babeland)
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