{"data":{},"content":[{"data":{},"content":[{"data":{},"marks":[],"value":"Let’s be clear on something: Vaginal dryness can happen to women of any age and for various reasons. And while it can be a symptom of other issues, vaginal dryness is not always an indication that something else is going on, or that your sex drive is lower than it “should” be. (FWIW, ebbs and flows in your libido are perfectly natural, too.) ","nodeType":"text"}],"nodeType":"paragraph"},{"data":{},"content":[{"data":{},"marks":[],"value":"Sometimes, vaginal dryness is just a matter of your ","nodeType":"text"},{"data":{"uri":"https://www.self.com/story/10-reasons-you-should-absolutely-use-lube-during-sex"},"content":[{"data":{},"marks":[{"type":"underline"}],"value":"body taking longer to catch up to your mind","nodeType":"text"}],"nodeType":"hyperlink"},{"data":{},"marks":[],"value":". Meaning: You’re turned on mentally, but your body isn’t fully there yet. That’s where lube comes in. Not only can it help prevent tears in the vaginal wall or pain during sex, it can also boost ","nodeType":"text"},{"data":{"uri":"https://www.theskimm.com/wellness/gender-pleasure-gap-women-orgasm"},"content":[{"data":{},"marks":[{"type":"underline"}],"value":"pleasure","nodeType":"text"}],"nodeType":"hyperlink"},{"data":{},"marks":[],"value":". Other times vaginal dryness is caused by a physiological change. The culprit is often a loss of ","nodeType":"text"},{"data":{"uri":"https://www.uptodate.com/contents/vaginal-dryness-beyond-the-basics"},"content":[{"data":{},"marks":[{"type":"underline"}],"value":"estrogen","nodeType":"text"}],"nodeType":"hyperlink"},{"data":{},"marks":[],"value":". It’s the ","nodeType":"text"},{"data":{"uri":"https://www.theskimm.com/wellness/does-birth-control-make-you-moody"},"content":[{"data":{},"marks":[{"type":"underline"}],"value":"hormone","nodeType":"text"}],"nodeType":"hyperlink"},{"data":{},"marks":[],"value":" that, among other things, helps your vagina lubricate naturally. Estrogen levels can take a dip while ","nodeType":"text"},{"data":{"uri":"https://www.healthline.com/health/postpartum-vaginal-dryness"},"content":[{"data":{},"marks":[{"type":"underline"}],"value":"breastfeeding","nodeType":"text"}],"nodeType":"hyperlink"},{"data":{},"marks":[],"value":", before your period starts, and during ","nodeType":"text"},{"data":{"uri":"https://www.theskimm.com/wellness/perimenopause-signs-symptoms"},"content":[{"data":{},"marks":[{"type":"underline"}],"value":"perimenopause","nodeType":"text"}],"nodeType":"hyperlink"},{"data":{},"marks":[],"value":" and ","nodeType":"text"},{"data":{"uri":"https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/symptoms/21027-vaginal-dryness"},"content":[{"data":{},"marks":[{"type":"underline"}],"value":"menopause","nodeType":"text"}],"nodeType":"hyperlink"},{"data":{},"marks":[],"value":" — which can mean less natural lubrication. Certain medications and treatments can also contribute to vaginal dryness, which can also come with symptoms such as burning, itching, soreness, frequent UTIs, or bleeding after sex. Needless to say it can put a damper on your sex life (and is just generally uncomfortable). ","nodeType":"text"}],"nodeType":"paragraph"},{"data":{},"content":[{"data":{},"marks":[],"value":"As for solutions, there are some treatments for vaginal dryness, such as ","nodeType":"text"},{"data":{"uri":"https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/symptoms/21027-vaginal-dryness#possible-causes"},"content":[{"data":{},"marks":[{"type":"underline"}],"value":"vaginal suppositories and estrogen creams","nodeType":"text"}],"nodeType":"hyperlink"},{"data":{},"marks":[],"value":", which may help (depending on what your doc says is right for you). Some natural remedies for vaginal dryness may also be helpful whether you’re nearing menopause or not. Here, ","nodeType":"text"},{"data":{"uri":"https://missjaiya.com/about/"},"content":[{"data":{},"marks":[{"type":"underline"}],"value":"Jaiya Ma","nodeType":"text"}],"nodeType":"hyperlink"},{"data":{},"marks":[],"value":", a somatic sexologist and star of ","nodeType":"text"},{"data":{"uri":"https://www.netflix.com/title/81459349"},"content":[{"data":{},"marks":[{"type":"underline"}],"value":"Netflix’s “Sex, Love & Goop”","nodeType":"text"}],"nodeType":"hyperlink"},{"data":{},"marks":[],"value":" breaks down some of your options. ","nodeType":"text"}],"nodeType":"paragraph"},{"data":{"target":{"sys":{"id":"2J5HmCVaWxqrnM5T7B4w8f","type":"Link","linkType":"Entry"}}},"content":[],"nodeType":"embedded-entry-block"},{"data":{},"content":[{"data":{},"marks":[{"type":"bold"}],"value":"theSkimm: ","nodeType":"text"},{"data":{},"marks":[],"value":"How do I get rid of vaginal dryness? ","nodeType":"text"}],"nodeType":"paragraph"},{"data":{},"content":[{"data":{},"marks":[{"type":"bold"}],"value":"Jaiya:","nodeType":"text"},{"data":{},"marks":[],"value":" “There are many factors other than age that affect lubrication. Some [vaginas] are naturally more lubricated than others. Some women naturally [don’t] lubricate as much, no matter what age they are. We have conflated arousal with wetness…but you can feel turned on and aroused and not be wet. But [dryness] can also be indicative of a bigger challenge going on. Any pain is something to pay attention to and to get to the bottom of. ","nodeType":"text"}],"nodeType":"paragraph"},{"data":{},"content":[{"data":{},"marks":[],"value":"[Ask yourself], is [the dryness] related to your emotions — you didn’t want to have sex, but you overrode your body? 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","nodeType":"text"},{"data":{"uri":"https://www.eatingwell.com/article/17576/8-hydrating-foods-to-help-you-meet-your-water-goals/"},"content":[{"data":{},"marks":[{"type":"underline"}],"value":"Eat foods that help you feel hydrated","nodeType":"text"}],"nodeType":"hyperlink"},{"data":{},"marks":[],"value":", [such as] cucumber, melon, [and] pineapple. [Avoid] activities that dehydrate you [and] clothing that irritates your vaginal tissue. ","nodeType":"text"}],"nodeType":"paragraph"},{"data":{},"content":[{"data":{},"marks":[],"value":"Increase arousal to improve vaginal ","nodeType":"text"},{"data":{"uri":"https://www.theskimm.com/wellness/period-sex"},"content":[{"data":{},"marks":[{"type":"underline"}],"value":"lubrication","nodeType":"text"}],"nodeType":"hyperlink"},{"data":{},"marks":[],"value":". If ","nodeType":"text"},{"data":{"uri":"https://www.theskimm.com/life/sex-toys-for-every-person-and-preference"},"content":[{"data":{},"marks":[{"type":"underline"}],"value":"foreplay","nodeType":"text"}],"nodeType":"hyperlink"},{"data":{},"marks":[],"value":" is arousing, then [more foreplay] would improve wetness. Maybe you need more warm up before [penetration]. Maybe your [partner] needs to learn to work from the outside to the inside. Meaning, work with the external anatomy before going more internal to penetration. Learn to ","nodeType":"text"},{"data":{"uri":"https://www.theskimm.com/wellness/how-to-prepare-for-anal"},"content":[{"data":{},"marks":[{"type":"underline"}],"value":"listen to your body","nodeType":"text"}],"nodeType":"hyperlink"},{"data":{},"marks":[],"value":". When [you feel too dry], pause, [try] something different. Go back to kissing or activities that warm you up [for] sex. [And] 100% use ","nodeType":"text"},{"data":{"uri":"https://www.theskimm.com/life/smart-products-thatll-reenergize-your-sex-life"},"content":[{"data":{},"marks":[{"type":"underline"}],"value":"lube","nodeType":"text"}],"nodeType":"hyperlink"},{"data":{},"marks":[],"value":". You can [also] talk to your doctor about medications and supplements. ","nodeType":"text"}],"nodeType":"paragraph"},{"data":{},"content":[{"data":{},"marks":[],"value":"People believe that something must be wrong with them if they aren’t wet. Anytime ","nodeType":"text"},{"data":{"uri":"https://www.theskimm.com/wellness/healthy-sex-life-guide"},"content":[{"data":{},"marks":[{"type":"underline"}],"value":"sex","nodeType":"text"}],"nodeType":"hyperlink"},{"data":{},"marks":[],"value":" is involved, we may have hang-ups or shame, and that isn’t serving us. 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